Episode 008 - Tested to Be Trusted: How God Uses Trials to Answer Your Prayers

Have you ever wondered why you keep facing the same challenges over and over? That irritating coworker, family conflict, or professional disappointment might actually be a divine test revealing what's in your heart.

In this transformative episode, we unpack the crucial difference between God's testing and Satan's temptation. Testing from God proves our trustworthiness and readiness for greater purpose, while temptation lures us away from our divine calling. Understanding this distinction completely changes how we respond to life's difficulties.

We share vulnerable personal stories about facing tests of patience, overcoming self-righteousness, finding courage for public speaking, and healing from childhood wounds. These real-world examples illuminate how God often tests us in the very areas where we've prayed for growth. As one of us discovered in New York City and the other in Washington DC, God frequently arranges real-time testing opportunities that align perfectly with what He's teaching us.

The practical tools we provide help you discern whether you're being tested or tempted. Learn to examine the source (does it draw you closer to Jesus or pull you away?), the method (does it invite trust or offer shortcuts?), and the fruit (does it produce freedom or shame?). We also explore how unforgiveness can become a dangerous temptation that keeps us trapped in the past instead of moving toward God's best future.

As C.S. Lewis noted, hardships produce extraordinary things in ordinary people. Or as Steve Harvey wisely observed, true success comes not from taking the elevator but by climbing the stairs—each step preparing you for what's ahead. Take this journey with us and discover how testing, though challenging, transforms your heart and deepens your relationship with God.