Episode 006 - What’s Really Behind Your Harmless Habits?

What if the things you're reaching for to feel alive are actually draining the life out of you? 

Most of us have seemingly harmless habits we've developed to cope with stress, boredom, or emotional voids. Whether it's that nightly glass of wine after a hard day, scrolling through explicit content online, or constantly seeking validation through achievement and people-pleasing – these coping mechanisms often masquerade as innocent indulgences.

In this raw, unfiltered conversation, we dive deep into society's most normalized addictions: alcohol, pornography, drugs, and even less obvious ones like perfectionism and constant striving. We share shocking statistics – like OnlyFans' $6.63 billion in annual revenue and studies showing over 90% of men and 60% of women consumed pornography last month – that reveal just how pervasive these issues have become.

But this isn't about shame or judgment. We explore the physiological reasons these habits hook us, rewiring our brains and creating escalating cycles that leave us needing more extreme stimulation for the same reward. We discuss the devastating global impact, including the direct connection between pornography consumption and human trafficking, with an estimated 95% of produced pornography coming from sexually exploited women and children.

Throughout our discussion, we offer practical steps for breaking free – from 30-day fasting challenges to journaling exercises – and recommend resources like Annie Grace's "The Naked Mind" and PureHope.net for those seeking recovery. Most importantly, we share a message of hope: what if these cravings are just misdiagnosed homesickness for something greater? As C.S. Lewis reminds us, perhaps our desires aren't too strong but too weak – we're settling for mud pies when God offers us the ocean.

Ready to examine what might be holding you back from experiencing true freedom and abundant life? This conversation might just be your first step toward breaking free.